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Barker posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, December 24, 2024
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On Christmas Eve here are the Vows I never got to say out loud. They would have read something like this:
We wont always see eye to eye (which we didn't)
You're not me and Im not you.
But when we're standing side by side,
We can see each others view.
It wont always be effortless,
Though my love will always run bone deep.
It burns with the stars, it will always be ours.
I will love you in my sleep.
We'll use words like they're fire,
Throw blame like knives,
You'll hold my hand through tears,
And years of these little lives.
We'll collect memories like leaves,
In the winter sun, and summer rain.
And when we're old we'll relive the colors
As a season starts again.
We will make promises that will be unspoken,
We will learn what it means to choose.
We'll discover the diamond in being the rock
And how rocks can also bruise.
They say that 'love' isn't enough,
But when morning is dark
And the smell of coffee and the sound of laughter
Etches in our hearts.
We couldn't have planned for everything to happen the way it did, if we tried
But Id live this life a thousand times over and over again for the time I get with you.
Its the simple things, the honest things
That make my heart take flight.....
I think this is what I would say in the vows I never got to say out loud.
Merry Christmas Stud. Hope you're enjoying the moments you get to see from above and your wings are glistening brighter than the star on our trees. With all my love, until we see each other again on the other side of the stars.
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Barker posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, December 11, 2024
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Getting ready to bake all the sweets for Christmas boxes, and all that comes to mind reading the directions, is your dreams of going to culinary school. You said if you could have any dream job it was 1 of 3 things... An IT tech guy in an office in front of computer screens, a pro gamer doing what you love and making bug bucks doing it, or a chef. I called you my foodie tech guy. Always cheddar, empathetic, and polite. You never let me open a single door, watched me in the kitchen smiling and laughing, and honestly there wasn't a single bad day that couldn't be fixed by one of your hugs. You made me feel so safe and secure. You caught all my stupid moments, laughed at me, and still loved me through it all. I miss you so much Stud. This holiday season is so hard without you. I'm trying, really hard to smile. Its not easy but I'm trying. I know you would have persevered no matter how sick, or upset, or whatever was going on.
So with all the holiday happenings, I'll smile through it, and know you're with me in spirit....until we meet again on the other side of the stars. With all my love, from me to you.
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Barker lit a candle
Wednesday, December 4, 2024
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Leaves are changing, temperatures are dropping. Kids are eager to see Santa. Everyone is prepping for the holidays are here. I keep waiting for you show up, for you to randomly appear. Everyone is so happy. But without you, its hard to find any kind of cheer. Time keeps going, nothing is stopping. Still memories of you keep relapsing.... I know you'd think the rhyming is cheddar. But couldn't express it any better. Sitting here watching Big Bang Theory. Thinking of you. With all my love, from me to you Stud. Missing you like crazy down here.
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Barker lit a candle
Friday, November 22, 2024
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Next week is Thanksgiving Stud. We would have been married for just over 6 months. Keeping with tradition, made clam chowder and started a new tv series. Found a couple new recipes you probably would have enjoyed. Keeping busy and trying to stay focused on the positive, as its the season to be thankful... That being said, I am so beyond thankful for the time we got to share, the memories we got to make, and the moments we laughed until we cried. More than I realized, those moments keep me going. They help me smile, when some days I want to give up. You were more incredible than you gave yourself credit for being. When you didn't smile or laugh, you managed to make those around you crack one or two effortlessly, even being stubborn and grouchy. I miss you so much. Even though it was short lived, thank you for letting me be a part of your world. Until I get to see you again, on the other side of the stars, game on Stud.
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Barker uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, November 10, 2024
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Every night my soul reaches out for yours. Every morning I wakeup, Im reminded your not here. All day long, I wish I could go back to sleep. Back to where I get to see your face, hear your voice, and back to where I'm able to hold your hand again. Your my favorite dream and my hardest heaviest loss. I love you. I miss you and am counting down the time, until I get to see you again. One day, on the other side of the stars. Until then, game on Stud.
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Barker uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, November 2, 2024
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Drove across the dam today. The sunset was beautiful. Reminded me of when you were out of state, you'd have me describe it to you over our phone calls. You said, you missed the view from the dam, friends and family, and of course Taco Tuesdays. We had some good deep intense conversations watching the sunset up there. I hate that I miss you so much. I love that I have such amazing memories of you. Its not the same down here without you. Don't think it ever will be. I miss you and love you every day. Until I get to see you again, on the other side of the stars.... Game on.
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Barker uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 14, 2024
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In 7 days, it will have been 6 months you have been gone. But It was just yesterday, you were making plans for tomorrow. Time changes everything, nothing stays the same. I miss you everyday, it doesn't get easier, the pain doesn't lessen, it just becomes tolerable. Hope you know not a day has gone by without you being thought about.
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Barker lit a candle
Thursday, October 10, 2024
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Sometimes I don't know what is worse... missing you, or the fact that there's nothing I can do about it. Then there are times I hear your voice so vividly in my head, I give myself whiplash looking around to see if I can see you. Of course your not there. Does not mean I wont turn to look. I miss you. You are still always thought about. I hope you always know that.
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Barker lit a candle
Thursday, October 3, 2024
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More Time- NeedToBreathe- When one of your love languages is music because it says everything you're thinking but don't know how to say it out loud.... I gotcha. Ironically the last song we listened to together, April 18th, you said we will be just fine and in a couple months we will be having so many adventures. Convinced. I smiled and said, "I love you, Goodnight".
"Cause I need more time
Just a few more months and we'll be fine
So say what's on your mind
'Cause I can't figure out just what's inside
So say alright
'Cause I know we can make it if we try
'Cause I need more time
Just a few more months and we'll be fine"
I miss you so much and am constantly seeking answers from you, knowing Ill never get the answers I'm looking for. I honestly don't think you know how much of a hole you left that can never be filled, not just for me but for everyone who knew you. You left an impact on so many and barely said anything. Miss you Goober.
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Barker posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, September 27, 2024
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Missing you is both, the easiest and hardest, thing I have ever done. I pray you know you are thought about every day. You left too soon. Hammer down and game on.
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Barker lit a candle
Wednesday, September 11, 2024
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“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
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Barker lit a candle
Monday, September 9, 2024
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Barker posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 9, 2024
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Barker lit a candle
Friday, August 30, 2024
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Rebecca lit a candle
Wednesday, June 19, 2024
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Lighting a candle sending all my love your way. Because there isn't a day that goes by that I havent thought about you.
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Mary lit a candle
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
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Love ya Son!
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Mary lit a candle
Sunday, May 19, 2024
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My son has 2 beautiful children.
Thank you to everyone that showed up and those that let me know of the ❤️.
My heart breaks!
Too soon !!!!
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Rebecca lit a candle
Tuesday, May 7, 2024
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Monday, May 6, 2024
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Mary uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 6, 2024
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Mary uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 6, 2024
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Mary uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 6, 2024
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